Stop Calling Yourself a ‘Good Girl’ Until I Say You Are
You’re Not a Good Girl—Yet.
There’s something downright irritating about submissives who prance around, labeling themselves “good girls” without having earned the title. Self-proclaimed titles are meaningless. Being a good girl isn’t about slapping a cute label on yourself for attention—it’s about being trained, tested, and molded by someone far superior who decides when (and if) you deserve that recognition. Until that day? Sit down, be quiet, and learn how to serve properly.
Why “Good Girl” Isn’t a Participation Trophy
Calling yourself a good girl prematurely is like handing yourself a gold medal for showing up to the race. Being a good girl is earned—it’s not a participation trophy for simply existing in the world of submission. It requires obedience, consistency, self-awareness, and the willingness to be shaped into something better. You can’t crown yourself with a title that only your Dominant has the right to bestow. That’s not how this works.
You want to be called a good girl? Then act like it. Being a good girl isn’t about wearing a collar and posting selfies. It’s about doing the hard work of submission—following commands without hesitation, striving for excellence in every task, and, most importantly, trusting that your Dominant knows exactly when you’re ready to be rewarded with that title.
Earn It, Don’t Declare It
Think about it: if you hand yourself a title before proving you deserve it, what does that title mean? Nothing. It’s empty. Worse than that, it’s disrespectful to the process. Every command followed, every challenge completed, every moment of discipline endured—these are what build a good girl. Without those, the title is just hollow words.
You don’t declare yourself worthy of praise. You prove it through action, obedience, and trust. A true good girl waits for the moment when her Dominant bestows that title upon her because she’s earned it, not because she decided she liked how it sounded.
Sit Down. Learn. Serve.
Until I call you a good girl, you’re just another submissive in training. That’s not an insult—it’s an opportunity. You don’t become great by skipping steps. You become great by showing up, putting in the work, and trusting that when the time comes, I’ll see your worth and give you what you crave. You want the reward? You want the praise? You want to be called My good girl? Then earn it.
Stop chasing empty labels. Start chasing real submission.
Ready to Prove Yourself?
If you’re done handing yourself unearned titles and ready to begin the real journey toward becoming something worthy, I’m ready to mold you. Join My world, engage in the forums, or submit a tribute to show you’re serious about your submission. The path to being called a good girl isn’t easy, but nothing worthwhile ever is.
Want to read more and learn how to truly serve? Explore My exclusive training guides and challenges designed to push you, test you, and ultimately transform you into something worthy. When you’ve earned it, I’ll be the one to call you My good girl. Until then, sit down, listen, and start proving yourself.