FAQs

“I want to be your slave.”

I appreciate your desire to serve, but that’s not a question. What truly matters in any potential dynamic is whether I choose you to be My submissive. My current slaves have dedicated significant time and effort to learn how to please Me and support My desires. They’ve embraced what it means to serve Me daily, making regular sacrifices for My benefit, all while respecting any arrangements we have.
Consider this: Have you done enough to impress Me?
If you believe you have, you may Apply for Available Positions.
If you’re unsure, perhaps My Slave School can guide you on the path to becoming more suitable.

“Why do I have to start online? I don’t want to jump through hoops.”

Starting online allows us to build trust and establish compatibility. My time is incredibly valuable, and many submissives wish to become part of My devoted circle. Completing the application process helps Me determine if we are a good fit and if you can be of service to Me. Following these steps is in your best interest.

“Beta slave vs. Power slave vs. Alpha slave… what does it all mean?”

These terms define different levels of commitment and capability among My submissives:
An Alpha slave is highly successful and deeply submissive. She effortlessly handles planning—booking hotels, arranging travel, making reservations—and covers the costs of private one-on-one sessions or adventures with Me.
A Power slave is also successful but may not have the means to cover all expenses. However, she can dedicate significant time to Me, perhaps by attending events or assisting with planning and coordination. She must excel at organization, even if serving from a distance.
Beta slaves may be less experienced or just beginning their journey. They might not be able to offer extravagant gestures, but they can still contribute in meaningful ways. Through My training, I help them improve themselves to become more worthy and useful to Me, which also enhances their own lives. With dedication, they may advance to a Power slave status.
Remember, each level reflects your dedication and ability to serve Me. Choose the path that aligns with your capabilities and commitment.

“What are Good Slave Points?”

Good Slave Points are how I recognize and track the dedication and progress of all My submissives—including slaves, pets, and those aspiring to serve Me. The more Good Slave Points you earn, the higher you rise in My circle. It’s a reflection of your commitment and growth under My guidance. How many will you earn this month?

“What are Suffer Puppets?”

My Suffer Puppets are a select group of loyal, owned slaves who have devoted themselves entirely to Me. These dedicated individuals have completed My consideration process and invested significant time and energy to truly serve Me. Through at least one year of training—whether online or in person—they have earned a cherished place in My world as My property, committed solely to My happiness and well-being. If you’re willing to embark on this transformative journey, you too may earn the privilege of becoming one of My Suffer Puppets.

“What are you into?”

I embrace a diverse range of experiences that allow My submissives to explore their deepest desires under My guidance. I have a passion for Female Supremacy, service, obedience training, chastity, domestic servitude, verbal humiliation, foot worship, emotional exploration, and so much more. Together, we’ll delve into these realms in a safe and consensual manner.

“What are your limits?”

I prioritize safety, trust, and mutual respect in all My interactions. My hard limits include sharing private communications, impatience, dishonesty, disloyalty, bratting, unpaid sessions, age play, ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover), any form of non-consensual activities, and being submissive myself. I do not offer any sexual services, and I’m not a match for those seeking dynamics involving “littles” or similar roles.

“You were amazing, where can I leave a review?”

I’m delighted to hear that our time together was meaningful for you. You can leave a review on My NiteFlirt profile. However, I truly appreciate personal testimonials sent directly to Me. Feel free to email your thoughts and experiences to FemaleSlavery@Protonmail.com.
Remember, your journey of submission is a path we walk together, built on trust and mutual respect. I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

“What are you going to do to me?”

Curious, aren’t you? I wouldn’t want to spoil the surprise. If you’re eager to discover what it feels like when I guide you into deeper submission, feel free to call or text Me. Together, we’ll explore your desires. 😈

“I’m embarrassed or worried.” “It’s my first time.” “How does this all work?”

It’s perfectly natural to feel a bit nervous, and I find it endearing. Rest assured, I’ve guided many through their first steps on this journey. Everyone has unique desires, and yours are likely more common than you think. I enjoy providing first experiences to respectful individuals. If you’re feeling shy, texting Me is a gentle way to begin. You might also explore the resources I offer at FemaleSlavery.com to help ease you into this world.

“When can I talk or chat with you?”

I typically check My texts and emails once or twice a day from Tuesday to Saturday. I activate My phone lines at times that suit Me. If you’d like to ensure a call or text session, you can pre-schedule a time between Tuesday and Saturday, 12 PM to 8 PM PT.

“Which clip stores, fan sites, and tribute methods do you use?”

I prefer tributes through OnlyFans, and I am most active on My Be Owned Membership Sites. However, I offer a variety of payment methods across several trusted platforms. You can find a full list of My Fan Clubs here, and all of My Clip Stores here. This is a list of All My Options & Sites. You can find resources and training at FemaleSlavery.com. If you’re interested in custom content, you can request Custom Clips here.
Remember, your journey into submission is a path we walk together. I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

“How much does it cost?”

An appropriate offering for interactions depends on various factors, including My interest, the activities proposed, duration, and location. You’ll need to fill out an application and book a session so I can provide a suitable quote. Prices for My clip stores, phone lines, tributes, and text options are listed directly on their respective sites. All payments are expected prior to any sessions, products, or services being provided.

“May I get you a gift?”

That would be delightful. You can find My Amazon Wishlist here.
In general, I appreciate these fine things:
Gifts of Property & Real Estate
Non-Expiring Travel Vouchers & Airline Miles
Blue Chip Dividend Stocks (List here)
Bitcoin & Ethereum
Diamonds & Fine Gems set in Platinum or Silver (I prefer not to wear gold)
White Truffles

“Do you dominate women? What about trans, bi, couples, etc.?”

Absolutely. I am dominant, and that doesn’t change based on who you are or how many of you there are. While My belief in Female Supremacy is evident throughout FemaleSlavery.com, I am pandominant* and enjoy individuals from all walks of life, as long as they are respectful and of use to Me.
*Note: Pansexuality does not apply here as I do not offer any sexual services as a Professional Mistress. This is about you serving Me to provide Me with ease, pleasure, and amusement—not about you seeking personal gratification.

“Will you go out with me?”

Any excursions with Me will only happen after you have provided an appropriate offering and scheduled a session. You can expect to cover all costs and expenses, including travel and incidentals while we are together. This will not be a “date” but an opportunity to interact with Me socially and deepen our connection and dynamic.
I am a huge fan of new and luxurious experiences. Planning a fun adventure for the two of us is definitely a way to earn yourself “Good Slave” points in My ledger.
Remember, your journey into submission is one we embark on together, built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

“I don’t think I should have to pay…” “I’m special.” “Can I pay a different amount?”

I understand that you may feel unique, but it’s important to recognize that My time and energy are valuable. Access to a confident, intelligent, and empowering Mistress is a privilege. The offerings I require are set to reflect the commitment and respect I expect from those wishing to serve Me. If you’re sincere about embarking on this journey with Me, I encourage you to honor the arrangements I’ve established.

“But Mistress, I love you! I worship you!”

I appreciate your feelings, but it’s essential to remember that in our dynamic, I lead and you follow. My slaves, submissives, and devoted followers belong to Me, and our connection is built on mutual respect and understanding. If I have not agreed to own you, then we have not established that level of commitment.
If you truly wish to serve Me, it’s important that your actions reflect your intentions. Contributing to My well-being and making My life smoother are meaningful ways to demonstrate your devotion.
Please understand that sending unsolicited messages or requests for free services is not an appropriate way to express your admiration.

“Will you mentor me as a Dominant?”

Thank you for your interest in learning from Me. At this time, I am not accepting new mentees. I’ve dedicated years and significant resources to perfecting My craft. Should I decide to offer mentorship in the future, I expect those interested to approach with respect and to value My time accordingly.

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“I want to be your slave.”

Of course you do, but that’s not a question. Do not presume what you want matters. What is important in any potential dynamic is if *I* want you to be My slave. My current personal slaves have put in the time and effort to ensure they will be pleasing and supportive to Me and My desires. They have learned what is important to successfully serve Me day-to-day and make regular Sacrifices for Me. All while still paying for any sessions they may have with Me.

Compared to that… have you impressed Me enough to consider you?
If you think so you can Apply for Available Positions.
If you’re not sure My Slave School can help.

Why do I have to start online? I don’t want to jump through hoops.

Excuse you. Being willing to jump through any hoop I command should be your #1 priority. My time is incredibly valuable and there are many slaves, subs, toys, property, and pets who wish to be added to My loyal Collection of Suffer Puppets. Expecting you to complete an application process so I can tell if we are compatible and if you will potentially be useful to Me… is not a lot to ask. It is in your best interest to fill it out.

beta slave vs power slave vs alpha slave… what does it all mean?

For the beta/Alpha/Power slave a lot of that is self identification.
Generally, for my service, an Alpha slave is someone who is very successful but submissive. He should have no problem taking care of both the planning (booking hotels, air travel, restaurant reservations) and cost of a private 1:1 3-day session or adventure with me.
A Power Slave should also be successful but they may not have the financial means to pay for all those things. However, they should have enough success to be able to take off 3-days from work and attend to me at an event or conference. A power slave MUST be good at planning things, even if they don’t serve in person. They might be tasked with research and planning my next trip to a new city, or coordinating my daily schedule.
beta slaves are generally not that useful. at least at the start. They aren’t masculine and aren’t smart or fun to talk to. They aren’t successful in life enough to do anything extravagant for me, but they can still tribute and in their training I work to improve them as overall humans to make them more worthy and useful for me, which also improves their own lives and can lead to them becoming successful and earning a power slave status.

What are Good Slave Points?

Good Slave Points are how I track the overall behavior and ranking of all My slaves, subs, toys, property, pets, puppets, and potential applicants. The more Good Slave Points you can earn, the better. How many can you earn this month?

What are Suffer Puppets?

Sofia’s Suffer Puppets are My group of loyal OWNED slaves. These loyal slaves invest the time and energy to truly serve Me and have complete My consideration process. By doing so they have earned a coveted place in My world as My Property. Online or in person they have trained with Me for a minimum of one year and are dedicated only to Me and My happiness. If you are willing to be trained, you too may earn the right to be My Suffer Puppet.

What are you into?

I enjoy a wide variety of kinks. I LOVE Female Supremacy, service, obedience training, chastity, domestic servitude, verbal humiliation & degradation, foot worship, emotional Sadism, and so much more…

What are you NOT into?

My hard limits include sharing private communications, impatience, lying, disloyalty, brats, unpaid play, age play, diapers incest, CNC, any sexual activity, and being submissive. I am NOT a good match for ABDL, littles, etcetera, of any kind.

You were amazing, where can I leave a review?

You can leave a review on my NiteFlirt calls but even better if you email me a testimonial at FemaleSlavery@Protonmail.com

What are you going to do to me?

What?! I can’t tell you and spoil the surprise! If you want to consult about a session or find out what it feels like when I put you in your place Call Me or Text Me to find out. 😈

I’m embarrassed or worried.” “It’s my first time.” “How does this all work?” “What about…?”

Hehe, it’s cute when you’re nervous. I do this in both My professional and personal life, trust Me everyone has at least one “weird thing” and yours is probably pretty common. I enjoy providing first experiences to respectful individuals and have an entire course dedicated to helping with this at MenAreChattel.com. Texting Me is also an easy way to start if you are shy.

When can I talk or chat with you?

I check My texts and emails once or twice a day Tue-Sat and I turn My phone lines on randomly, whenever I feel like it. If you would like to guarantee a call or text session you can preschedule a time for Tues-Sat 12p-8p PT.

Which clip stores, fan sites, and tribute methods do you use?

I prefer tributes through Kinkbomb or OnlyFans and I am most active in My Chasity Training & Be Owned Membership Sites. However, I have a wide variety of payment methods available through a number of trusted sites. You can find a full list of My Fan Clubs here. All of My Clip Stores are here. This is a list of All My Options & Sites. You can find Slave School at MenAreChattel.com. You can request Custom Clips here.

How much does it cost?

An acceptable Offering for interactions will depend on My interest, the activities proposed, duration, location, etc. You will need to fill out an application & book a session so I can provide an appropriate quote. My Clip Stores, Phone Lines, Tribute, & Text Options all have the price listed directly on the individual sites. All payments will be expected prior to sessions, products, or services being provided.

May I get you a Gift?

That would be delightful. You can find My Amazon Wishlist here.

In general I enjoy these fine things:

Gifts of Property & Real Estate

Non Expiring Travel Vouchers & Airline Miles

Blue Chip Dividend Stocks (List here)

Bitcoin & Ethereum

Diamonds & Fine Gems set in Platinum or Silver (I will not wear Gold)

White Truffles

Do you dominate women? What about trans, bi, couples, etc.?

Honey, I am dominate. What is inside your pants and how many people are in the room is not going to change that. While My belief in Female Supremacy is evident at MenAreChattel.com I am pandominant* and I enjoy individuals from all walks of life as long as they are respectful and of use to Me.

*Note: pansexuality does not come into play as I do not offer any sexual services as a Professional Mistress. This is about you serving Me to provide Me with ease, pleasure, and amusement. Not you having orgasms.

Will you go out with me?

Any and all excursions with Me will only happen after you have provided an appropriate Offering and scheduled a session. Additionally, you can expect to cover all costs and any expenses including travel and incidentals while we are out together. This will NOT be a “date” but an opportunity to interact with Me socially and deepen our connection and Dynamic.

I am a huge fan of new and luxury experiences. Planning a fun adventure for the two of us is definitely a way to earn yourself “Good Slave” points in My Ledger.

I shouldn’t have to pay…” “I’m sPecIAL.” “I will pay a different amount…”

No, you will pay whatever amount I require and respect whichever rules I outline.

Access to a gorgeous, intelligent, powerful, and intoxicating Mistress is a luxury. You have ZERO entitlement to Me or MY time. If you waste My time showing Me how cheap and disrespectful you are, you will be Blocked.

But Mistress! I love you! I worship you!

As a Mistress I do not belong to My slaves, subs, toys, property, pets, or puppets. They belong to ME. What you want and how you feel are not important: Only I am. If I have not consented to owning you, you are not My slave.

If you want to serve Me, you will suffer FOR ME in ways of My choosing that BENEFIT ME.

If you worship Me… If you love Me, you are already willingly and selflessly providing for Me with Sacrifices and serving Me by making My life easier in anyway that you can. I shouldn’t even have to ask.

Bothering Me in My DMs to beg for free pictures or services from My business is not worship and it is not love.

Will you Mentor me as a Dominant?

Thank you for your interest, I am not currently accepting Mentees at this time. Do note, I have spent years of My time and large sums of money to learn and perfect My craft. If you would like Me to share My knowledge with you, all My mentees are expected to be respectful and pay for My time just as anyone else would be.

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